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I stated using internet since i was 12 years old. Yep now i am 26 years old....i'm single..and alone hahaha
long before facebook era..
Being exposed with all the social network during teenager life sometime makes me drown and lost. Frankly, i'm not ashamed to clarify here that i may 'deeply depressed' during my early teenager life because someone hurt my feeling in the net. Well..i laugh, smile, even cries. (so what if i cried? i was just a boy back then)
Now.. when i think about it, why on earth did i ever do such thing. Deeply attach to this unrealistic world. Touch by just mere word.. alphabetically combine to make sense to perfect sentence, which sometime too soft & too hot till it melt my heart..yet sometimes too strong and sharp like a knife piercing the same place.
The sentences which gives meaning and which people can see and read are something more. A chit chat famously wasting teenager time sometimes can create a relationship, friends, lovers, marriage and also enemy. It is also well known, if you want to see the true nature of someone attitude, look at what they post, their comment, their behavior in the internet while their name is just anonymous..or a fake name.
In my own vision & experience, it may be true that you can initially judge the person behavior just by reading a text of her/him reply message. Yes it is possible. Just need to make sure it is spontaneous, not an intelligently created one. A quick reply will be perfect for you. I am guessing most of us have came across of something like an impromptu speech, or an idea or a question of truth. These questions must be answer as quickly as possible just to make sure that you did not have time to create an imaginary answer or a filtered one.
The concept is the same via text message, so as body language. I am not a professional nor a degree holder in psychology, but we all have our own experience that teach us everyday. I am sorry if my word is sharp. I had to be sure.
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